Know Yourself - Ask what really makes me happy
Ask yourself “What would make me happier?”
It might be having more fun, having more friends, more time for yourself.
It might mean having less of something rather than more, less hassle at work, less fights with your partner, less travel time to your work, less nagging from your wife.
It might involve seeing more of your family, doing something to help others, or getting more credit for what you accomplish at work or from your spouse, learning something new or becoming more independent.
Knowing yourself is the key, know what your really want and then start doing what needs to be done to make that happen.